Brake pads EBC or Raybestos

I would look at Raybestos, Wagner, Bendix, Bosch, or any of the major parts store brands.

Get the EBC RedStuff kit from FCP. I've had them on several cars and it's exactly what you describe. They held up to some AutoCross as well.

DBA 4000 T3 high-carbon rotors and EBC Red Stuff pads improved modulation for me significantly.

EBC Redstuff for the street, low dust keeps the wheels looking nice.

I got mine February this year, M5 F90, Pre-LCI (2019), just about 40k miles; Lovely car and I have been daily it. Just like other have said, get one that has been looked after and serviced. For me, it was an approved used and was just serviced before collecting it, it had new brake pads and discs, the OEM pads are awful and replaced them with EBC Yellow stuff brake pads, I would recommend if you ever need to replace pads.

Depending on your engine (taking the 2.0 turbo petrol as an example) EBC do a kit for all pads and disks for £506.57 including VAT.

I always used EBC black organic pads; I tried HH pads briefly a few times but never liked the feel, especially in the rain.

As an EBC Red owner myself. These pads are not built for abuse. Like at all. They're a sporty street pad at best.

I am on their RP-1 pads but I get terrible vibrations after they get heated. I suspect its because I didnt change rotors from my previous pads. I just thought they'd be rebedded after a few hard stops with the new pads.

Only pad I've had torque change on was EBC yellow, once it gets close to backing plate the brake torque drops off a cliff, I suspect it's the adhesive they used